Family Bicycle Adventure Across
Europe
by Joan L. Bangs
At
left, Joan L. Bangs, holding her newest granddaughter, Krista Sophia
Bangs. Krista and her older sister, Hannah, 3 years of age, live in
Austin, Texas.
Many people feel they should wait until their children are
"older" to travel. We just could not wait to go. Douglas was 10,
Becky 8, Nathan 7 and Sarah 3 years old. Larry and I had a tandem,
but needed our own cycles so one of us could lead and the other
could be behind the children. We decided to purchase Raleigh cycles
when we reached Europe. The older children had bicycles that we took
with us on the boat and Sarah had her bicycle seat, which fastened
over the back fender of her father’s bicycle. We made oil cloth
liners for our front and side carriers and everything we needed for
six weeks was to be carried on our bicycles. This included sleeping
bags for youth hostels; sports clothes for cycling and dress clothes
for museums, churches and special dinners; toiletries which did
include a roll of toilet paper; maps and guides; bicycle repair
parts; and any souvenirs. The children’s grandparents had given all
of us lederhosen.
Our families were a little worried about our taking four young
children on a bicycle trip where we would be in countries with
different languages and currencies. We knew the children would take
everything in stride and despite grandparents concerns, off we went.
We left them an itinerary of where we planned to go and posts where
we would look for mail. Because we forgot to take the itinerary with
us we received much of our mail when we returned home!
Our first destination was to be Cork, Ireland. Not one day into
what was to be a relaxing five day voyage and our plans changed. Our
ship, the Cunard Lines Sylvania, ran aground in the St. Lawrence
River midway between Montreal and Quebec City, Canada. The Empress
of England was already underway when it received our distress call.
Transferring via coal tender to another Europe bound ocean liner,
the Empress of England, taught us and our children to take
everything in stride. Watching our four young children climbing up
the side of the large vessel on a rope ladder in mid-river was a bit
alarming, but we were soon gathered together like refugees in a big
dining room and fed sandwiches and wonderful English tarts and
pastries. Our sleeping assignments on an already full ship were
next. We were lucky, we were assigned a small room with mattresses
wall to wall on the floor for the children. People already on the
ship gave up the luxury of one person in a double room or three in a
four bed room. Every bed was filled, even the infirmary. How they
managed their food supply for twice the number of people planned was
amazing, but they did. The original passengers on our rescue ship
had all pitched in and cooperated to welcome us aboard. They wanted
to hear our story and we were anxious to tell them. We had a
wonderful crossing.
We enjoyed the ocean crossing so much we would have felt
satisfied to turn around and sail home. But we had planned to spend
seven weeks traveling in Ireland, England, Scotland, Belgium, The
Netherlands, Germany and France. Our goals remained the same, but
our plans had been suddenly altered. Instead of heading for Cork,
Ireland where we had intended to begin our trip by bicycles our ship
landed in Liverpool, England. We also had no bicycles because they
had to be left in the hold of the Sylvania.
Cunard Ship Lines provided us with a car until our bicycles
arrived a week later. We took advantage of the protection of a car
while learning to ride with the British road system. We drove
through Wales and Britain and after a week of touring by car had a
reunion with our bicycles in Dublin. We were glad to be on our
bicycles, feeling the wind blowing through our hair, smelling the
flowers and flowering bushes as we rode by, and realizing it was our
own power that would get us to our next destination. It was easy to
ride up to a little café and hop off our bicycles for a coke. We
tried to do most of our riding in the morning before it became too
hot. Sarah riding on the back of her father’s bicycle caused people
in passing cars to give a double take. She also spotted a soccer
ball that she really, really wanted. Her dad told her that we could
not possibly carry a ball on our bicycles, but if she saw one just
before we were to board the boat to sail home he would get it for
her. He thought he was safe!
I can not express the satisfaction my husband and I felt when
people would say, "I can not believe I am seeing Americans on
bicycles." One man in Belfast, Ireland said if he had thought he
would see Americans on bicycles he would have brought his camera to
work that day. One German woman talked to me at length while the
children and I were waiting outside the post office for Larry to
mail a package. I had no idea what she had said, for I understand
very little German. Suddenly she disappeared. Fortunately, she
reappeared before Larry came back, for she had apparently told me to
wait and she would be right back. When she returned she had her
hands full of candy for the children. I was so thankful she had
returned before Larry. I had no idea she had said she wanted us to
wait until she came back. One lady gave Sarah a doll and we tried to
get Sarah to say "danke schon". She shyly refused and so we told her
that she could not have the doll until she said "danke schon".
People in Holland would come out of their sweet shops to give the
children candy. Everywhere we went we were well received and I am
convinced this would not have happened without the children and
bicycles. We were standing at a street crossing in Basil,
Switzerland. The light did not seem to change and so we started
crossing against the light. Nathan, our seven year old, stood at the
crossing until the light changed. A Swiss man came up to Nathan and
gave him a Swiss five franc coin and said this is for waiting until
the light changed. These were important moments for the children.
They were learning a lot about the kind and appreciative people in
this world. We saw so much more and met so many people because the
children were traveling with us.
Our children also learned that we, their parents liked to have
fun, learn new things, visit art museums, enjoy music in a cathedral
and just see sites we have often read about. We shared something
that does not exist in a daily routine at home. We learned to make
the best of every situation. We learned how friendly and helpful
people could be and learned how to improvise. Sarah was only three
and when it came time for her nap we simply took the sleeping bag
that was carried behind her seat and put it in front of her and she
had a nice pillow to lean on. She would often take a two hour nap as
we rode along.
On our fourth day in Oban, Scotland we decided that if we were
going to leave Oban we would have to ride in the rain. We asked the
children to wear their Aran sweaters and Lederhosen because they
would shed the rain. We had ponchos which soon made us wetter from
sweat than the rain. Sarah, the three year old, wore a plastic
garbage bag over her Aran sweater and Lederhosen. Though Becky cried
most of the day because she had to ride in the rain, we all quickly
learned that we did not melt away when we got wet. It was a little
frightening for me because I knew that bicycle brakes, when wet, did
not work well. In the middle of the afternoon we had endured all of
the rain we felt we could take and stopped for tea and pastries at a
small hostel. The children and I hoped dad would say, "Shall we stay
here for the night." It was short of our destination, but so
inviting and we would not have to go back out into the rain. We put
all of our wet clothing in a corner of the room and while enjoying
our refreshments, discussed what we had really accomplished that
day. We began to realize we had braved the elements and found
strengths we did not realize we had. After about forty-five minutes
we all decided we wanted to go on and reach our destination. We did
not know then that in only four miles we would come to a ferry boat
which would take us to the other side of the inlet and to our bed
and breakfast lodging.
Waiting at the ferry was a long line of cars. Dad led us right
past the cars and up to the ferry attendant. He motioned us right on
so we rode our bicycles directly to the front of the boat. The
children all thought this was pretty exciting. We were soon on the
other side where we could look back and see the same cars still
waiting. We were on bicycles. We were feeling privileged. There was
room for us at the second bed and breakfast only a half mile down
the road. The lady welcomed us with a nice greeting, a hot cup of
tea and the message to put all of our wet clothes on the table just
outside of our room. We freshened up and rode our bicycles back to
the ferry landing where we found a nice little restaurant. With our
stomachs full, clothes dry and the satisfaction of having reached
our destination, we rode back to our lodging. How could the day end
more perfectly. When we reached our home for the night we parked our
bicycles and went to our rooms where we found our wet clothes lying
on our beds all dry. This gave us all a warm feeling. The children
were scrambling into bed when Becky said, "Mom, there is something
warm in my bed." Mrs. Duncan had placed a hot water bottle in each
of the beds. Here we were in a strangers home, but somehow they were
not strangers. We had ridden all day in the pouring rain and yet we
had the nicest and warmest feeling of accomplishment and friendship.
Our children became quite independent, particularly the older
three. Douglas,10, liked to go to the kiosks in Germany and purchase
things. Douglas and Sarah wanted to do something special for our
anniversary, so unbeknownst to us, Douglas and Sarah went to
purchase a bottle of wine at a nearby kiosk. Douglas counted the
German change and realized the clerk had not given him enough
change. When he argued for the additional change the clerk finally
gave it to him. That was the only time the children had advantage
taken (almost!) of them when using foreign currency.
The Netherlands was my favorite spot. Everyone lived out of
doors. Everyone waved as we rode by and many stopped to ask where we
were from. They would not believe we were Americans on bicycles.
They would say, "You are English," and we would say, "No, we are
Americans." They would say, "You are Americans living in England."
We would say, "No, we are Americans from America." I enjoyed Holland
because the Dutch have a complete road system just for bicycles. The
children did not have to ride on the road with cars and trucks.
It was like a storybook as we rode along canals, passed over
drawbridges, and talked with Dutch farmers dressed in traditional
pants and wooden shoes, working along the canals. We passed windmill
after windmill. The children liked to look for a flower market in
each little town. We bought klompen (wooden shoes) on our way to the
Alkmaar cheese market. We watched them auction the cheese, weigh the
big wheels and carry them on shoulder balances to the waiting wagons
to be wheeled to the grocery. Then we peddled over the longest dike
in the Netherlands to Veere where we stayed in the loft of a Dutch
home. The children were excited to be staying in a home where the
mother and children wore wooden shoes and the traditional dress. It
was a feeling of freedom to ride off on our bicycles waving goodbye
to new friends. We were underway again and riding about 50 to 60
miles a day. Riding along the top of the dikes it was easy to
explain to the children how the land had been reclaimed from the
sea. We all wanted to come back in the winter and skate on the
canals.
We arrived in Paris by train on a Saturday night. Riding our
bicycles through Paris to the hotel took us past the opera house
where the patrons were gathering for an evening performance. We drew
a bit of attention, dressed in our lederhosen, as we peddled down
the street. When we arrived in front of the Church of Mary
Magdalene, Larry went off the curb and Sarah fell from her seat on
the back of his bicycle. She was not seriously hurt, but she had a
bump on her head. We did not ride our bicycles much in Paris. We did
ride them up and down the Champs Elyesse just to say we had. We
climbed to the top of the Arch de Triumph and nearly had to rescue
Nathan from the water fountains at the base of the Eiffel Tower. We
walked all over Paris and spent hours in the Louvre.
My fondest memory of Paris, however, is of the time we spent in
the railroad station shipping our bicycles to Cherbourg, our final
destination before sailing home. We did not speak French. We wanted
to ship our bicycles. It was a Saturday night and we were in the
baggage department. A Frenchman was very kindly trying to explain
something to us which we did not understand. Finally, he conveyed to
Larry to come with him to the international baggage desk. When Larry
followed him I was left alone with the four children in a large room
with about five workers. I was a little apprehensive, not knowing
these people, and not speaking their language. Work was slow for
them on this Saturday evening and so they began to gather around us.
They were not used to seeing small children on bicycles. Very soon
they were pointing to parts of the bicycle and pronouncing the
French word for wheel, pedal etc. and were asking our children the
English name. An hour passed in this manner, until Larry’s return.
He had been concerned about us, but when he saw us he realized we
had been well protected. The international desk clerk had explained
to Larry what the first man had tried to explain. They would hold
our bicycles here for three days free of charge and then ship them.
Then they will hold our bicycles free of charge for three days after
they reached their destination and by that time we would be there to
pick them up. We really appreciated their thoughtfulness. We left
our bicycles with the men who had taught us many French words and as
we walked out of the baggage room they called "good by" to which we
responded "au revoir". Would this have happened if we had not been
traveling as a family? How can countries be at war?
After we finished our visit in Paris we took the train to
Cherbourg. Everything had gone so well and no one had had any
bicycle accidents. We found ourselves almost afraid to bicycle on
the narrow roads in Cherbourg. We rode a few miles into the
countryside, but we stayed close to town and waited for the ocean
liner, the Queen Mary. We had very little money left, in fact, only
enough for the hotel for three nights and two omelets a day for the
five of us. But, we knew that when the Queen Mary sailed in for us
her larder would be full and when we boarded we could have all we
could eat. The food was included with the cost of the ocean crossing
which had been paid for before we left home. We were up early the
morning she was to sail into the harbor past the World War II
bunkers. She was a pretty sight. We had just enough change to buy
Sarah the soccer ball we had promised. She had not forgotten. We
purchased the ball and by 10 a.m. we were settled into our quarters.
Suddenly Sarah jumped up onto the top bunk and said very loudly,
"danke schon, now may I have my doll?" She had been thinking about
that the entire trip, but had been too shy and then, too stubborn to
say it until she was good and ready.
Again we had a wonderful crossing with all the food we could eat.
We had a wonderful steward who had great fun with the children and
kept track of them one night so Larry and I could have dinner alone.
Our bicycles were safely in the hold of the ship and we would soon
be home to tell grandparents, aunts and uncles about our trip.
We had one more hurdle. Grandpa and Grandma had said that they
would try and meet us at the boat dock with our old Chevrolet
station wagon. We had no way of knowing if they would be there, we
could only hope. As we docked we went to the bow of the ship and
looked and looked for our car. Then we began to wonder what we would
do. We did not even have enough money in our pocket to take a taxi
anywhere. What would we do with our bicycles? We had ridden through
London, Paris, Amsterdam, Rotterdam, and Brussels, yet we were
uncertain about riding in New York City. Where were grandpa and
grandma? We did not have money for food. Then we saw our maroon car
with the bicycle box. Grandpa and Grandma were there and we had the
perfect ending to a perfect trip.
This trip was taken in 1967. It has been hard for me to condense
my memories into this short article. My memories are as clear as if
the trip were yesterday. I will note that the children’s memories
may not be as factual as Larry and mine, but learning to adapt was
important to the confidence they gained to take future trips alone.
I know times may have changed and the safety of the roads and the
availability of bicycle paths may have diminished, but I am sure the
generosity of the people we met has not changed.
Today in our schools we put a great deal of emphasis on
multiculturalism. Our children were exposed to many cultures in a
very natural way while we traveled by bicycle for seven weeks in
Europe. You may wonder if you can afford such an experience. I would
ask if you can afford to turn your back on such memories.
If you have any questions or things to share please e-mail me. Joan@wildridge.com